Sunday, January 30, 2011

Saturday, January 29, 2011

the 'perfect' time

note to self: is there a perfect way to exercise? no! the perfect exercise is the one you will do each day. is there a perfect way to organize? no! the perfect organization is the one you will follow. is there a perfect time to get started? no! so why wait for the clock to hit :00, :15, :30, or :45? the perfect time is never. just start!

Friday, January 28, 2011

*this just in*

i'm a perfectionist.

my husband reminded me that sometimes life doesn't have to be perfect; sometimes God uses the imperfections.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

my natural habits are not my best habits

i struggle with myself sometimes. the things that i want to get done fight with the work required to DO them. does that make sense? my natural inclination is to rest, take it easy, watch some t.v., be lazy. but goals can't be accomplished by resting, taking it easy, watching some t.v., or being lazy. i am fighting against inertia.

inertia is a habit i have allowed myself to get away with when saying that 'good enough' is okay.

i believe (for most things) lasting change comes slowly. so slowly it almost doesn't seem like change. we've all heard 'slow and steady wins the race'. it is especially true when the race is a long one. a life-long one.

the problem is i want the change NOW.

i want to be the Godly woman i see in my head, the proverbs 31 woman - the one that prays eloquently, the one that knows the bible inside and out, the one who is a good communicator and companion for her spouse, the one who is the most beloved mommy, the one who makes their house a home/haven/refuge, the one who works a career successfully and prosperously, who is beautiful and healthy and fit.

people that say 'patience is a virtue' are wrong. patience is a habit. just like saying 'no' to sweets and snacks is a habit. just like brushing your teeth everyday is a habit. just like becoming THAT woman is a habit.

habits are reinforced action. inertia can be pushed into momentum.

my goals become reality when i choose the 'better' habit instead of the 'natural' habit... everyday. i become the person who can accomplish great things for the glory of God.

i am my habits. so i better make them good ones.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

excess

do you have excess in your life? not abundance. excess. excess of 'stuff'? excess of drama? excess of weight?

i do. i have much more than i need... exceeding normal; surpassing proper limits. yuck! excess is draining. excess is about me trying to wrestle control from God. i try to out-plan God. how silly i am.

what a difference abundance is from excess. abundance is fullness overflowing, a great supply. it feels ENERGIZING. it is meant to be given away.

i don't like that my excess blocks me from sharing my abundance.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

work willingly

my parents taught me to work hard, but they didn't teach me to work joyfully. or maybe they tried and i just failed at it. (what can i say? i'm deeply flawed.) if you are like me and can stand to have a little less chaos in your life, then try implementing some short and easy routines to your morning, afternoon and before bed. mine are pretty simple and are easy to do with a happy heart.

**MORNING:
-Make Bed
-20-30 Minutes of Exercise
-Shower
-Get Dressed to Shoes
-Moisturize Face/Wear Mascara
-Quickly Clean up the Sink
-Check the Calendar
-Eat Breakfast/Take Medicine


**AFTERNOON:
-Feed Cocoa (kids)
-Empty Dishwasher (kids)
-Homework (kids)
-Read One Chapter in the Bible
-Reboot Laundry (one load a day)
-Clean or De-Clutter Paper for 15 Minutes
-Play a Game
-Start Supper
-Drink 8 Glasses of Water


**BEFORE BED:
-Check the Calendar
-Lay out Clothes for Tomorrow
-Put Needed Items at the Door
-Spend 2 Minutes Cleaning Living Room
-Clean off Countertops
-Feed Cocoa
-Drink Water/Take Medicine
-Wash Face/Brush Teeth
-Pray
-Go to Bed by 11p.m.

Monday, January 24, 2011

how to make tomorrow different from today

how are you doing on your new year's resolutions? are you about burnt out? ready to give up? haven't even started? where ever you are, take a minute to read this essay. making small changes = lasting changes.

***

The following are goals may look a little familiar. In 2011 I will:

-Be more prepared
-Get more rest
-Embrace frugality

Uh huh, sure I will. I mean those goals sounds nice on paper -or my computer monitor as it were- but how will they happen?

Having the New Year fall on a weekend tends to make the first Monday of the year feel like any other. Those carefully thought out resolutions or goals, if you must, tend to go right out the window as we slide back into our usual routines. Don’t let that happen this week.

What if today you did things a little differently?
What if you changed the way you looked at your calendar/planner?

Why not look at your calendar and instead of the usual I have x to do this week, you said. What do I need to do today to get ready for x? And then, what if you actually did it? That’s the important part, you know.

What if tonight you looked at the weather and figured out what you were going to wear tomorrow?

And then, you took it a step further and made sure that it was clean and not rolled into a ball somewhere. Are planning on kicking off the new year with a session at the gym? What if you got your gym bag packed and ready to go. It’s one less excuse. While you’re at it, find your keys.

What if tonight you went to bed a little earlier than usual?

With Hulu, Netflix, DVRs, etc. Really, what IS your excuse? I promise the news will still be the news in the morning (and the afternoon and the evening, just with more gory details and additional drama). The news is always there.

What if you set your alarm ten minutes ahead?

Showing up a little too early is not the worst thing that will happen in your day.

Arriving on time isn’t just about getting yourself out the door when you should, it’s allowing buffer time for everyone else’s screw ups.

In my opinion, buffer time is awesome time.

I used to keep a book in the car, now a smartphone fills that role. However, there’s more than entertainment to life, you could: take a walk around the building or parking lot, menu plan, meditate or pray, etc.

It’s ok to step out of busyness and just be.

What it tomorrow you had coffee at home instead of at Starbucks?

Even if you buy the fancy beans or grounds, it’s still a fraction of the cost. Let’s pretend you drink one of the cheaper options $3.00 x 260 = $780. If passing up the caramel macchiato extra whip every day makes you cry, what if you turned the Starbucks run into a Friday treat? Now, you’ve got something extra to look forward to, and you’re still probably keeping $624 or so in your budget. (I’m a plain latte or cappucino girl myself. At home it’s just cafe au lait, if you were curious.)

Please, whatever you do, don’t tell me you buy the oatmeal at Starbucks. If you need to know how to make awesome oatmeal at home, just read this post on making oatmeal at home.

Now think about the time not spent in the drive through or waiting in line. . . Yup, you just found some more awesome time.

None of these are big changes, they are just small steps in a positive direction.


from http://www.home-ec101.com/sunday-set-the-week-up-right/

Sunday, January 23, 2011

simplify sunday

i like easy. i like simple. i sometimes confused easy for simple... do you?

i'm slowly realizing the two are NOT the same. easy means not difficult, requiring no effort, free from reflection. simple means modest, humble, one part, not blended, uncomplicated.

as i try to simplify some aspects in my life, i am becoming more aware that sometimes simple is hard. it requires thought, work, and continuous effort. it requires routines and organization. it requires attention.

we are trying to cut back on eating out. it is easy to grab something in the drive-thru or let someone else cook at a restaurant. you don't have to think beforehand about what's for dinner. you don't have to plan ahead or buy groceries. you don't have to do the actual cooking or cleaning up. why not stick with easy? because easy comes at a cost. the cost for us is finances and health.

on the other hand, it is simple to prepare a nutritious, healthy meal for my family. to do this, i just need to plan ahead. even though planning ahead may sometimes be difficult and time-consuming, it frees me from stress.

same with clearing out clutter. it is easy to run to the store and be dazzled by some beautiful item you just have to have. it is simpler to only buy what you need to keep your home running smoothly. what happens when you accumulate more than you need? it becomes clutter, and causes you anxiety and strife. sifting through the memories attached to a physical item is definitely not easy; but the feeling of harmony from having only what you need, use and love is simple.

living a balanced life is simple but not easy. what might take more planning on your part to make your life less complicated? what 'stuff' can you release to live more modestly?

Saturday, January 22, 2011

start a trend saturday

take a look at your life. really examine it. is it a life that other people would want to mimic? not in a keeping-up-with-the-joneses kind of way or everything-is-so-perfect kind of way, but in a genuine that-family-really-loves-each-other kind of way.

what new idea can you implement today that would bring joy to your family? turn off the saturday morning cartoons. cook up some pancakes with chocolate chip smiley faces. get out a board game. it's time to start a trend!

Friday, January 21, 2011

family favorite friday

do you have one day that you spend doing a family activity? we try. not only does it help our boys listen to us the rest of the week, but it provides us all with a good laugh. tonight, during our family favorite friday, we are going roller skating. it is going to be so fun! (but pray that bfp and i don't break something. lol.)

Thursday, January 20, 2011

thankfulness thursday

i have much to be thankful for. my beautiful home, my sweet puppy, my healthy kids, my husband who provides so well for us. i am abundantly blessed.

this morning i am thankful for my clean kitchen countertops that hubby shined for me last night. i am thankful to be spending my day with a client i enjoy. i am thankful for a website to track my calories and the friends i have made there. i am thankful for the delicious meal i made for lunch. i am thankful for HEAT and warm water. i am thankful for my car that allows me freedom. i am thankful for my date on sunday morning with my husband (running a 5k called the polar bear run). i am thankful for winter exercise clothes. i am thankful for the money my dad left me (the check arrived and i need to cash it). i am thankful for my sister's happiness and my brother's future child. i am thankful for my mom's generous spirit. i am thankful for beauty that God created (internal and external). i am thankful for computers.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

i wish wednesday

today, i wish:

-i were a natural runner
-it was easy to lose weight
-i could eat whatever i wanted whenever i wanted however much i wanted :)
-my house stayed magically clean
-my boys didn't bicker
-i had two daughters, as well as my two sons
-we lived closer to family
-we had more money than we could spend
-my husband and i spent more time being productive
-i spent more time being thankful for all that God has given me

sometimes my wishes are fanciful or unmotivating or shallow. sometimes they are soulful longing.

sometimes they are just a bit humorous like this song:
I wish I was little bit taller,
I wish I was a baller
I wish I had a girl looked good
I would call her.
I wish I had a rabbit in a hat with a bat
and a '64 Impala...

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

to-do list tuesday

blog
one load of laundry (sheets)
make beds
work
30 day shred
run 3 miles
help boys with homework
play game with boys
make supper
volunteer at retirement center
febreze
clean counters

Monday, January 17, 2011

make a difference monday

the boys don't have school today. (federal holiday, ya know.) the distruption to my normal routine is beyond frustrating. (to say the least!) my morning has been full of whininess, bickering, and crabby, needy boys... but i am reminded of proverbs 14:1 -

"The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down."

it would be so easy to let my frustration 'pull down this house with my own hands' (aka ruthless words or nasty tone of voice). my make-a-difference-monday goal is to be sweet in word and action to my loving sons all day before shipping them back to school tomorrow. (with a hidden happy dance, of course.)

**how are you making a difference today?

Sunday, January 16, 2011

what happened to sleep-in sunday?

bfp woke me up at 6am to go to the 7am service. i was not a happy camper. :( remember when sunday used to mean sleeping in... no, not really? me neither, but i had a dream that it happened once.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

happy news

my sister got engaged last night! she has been wanting this for a while, so i am really happy for her. i can't help thinking about how the wedding will have one missing person though. if i am thinking about it (and it's not even my wedding), i am sure it is also on my sister's mind as well. bittersweet.
Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...